Bad,What is BAD?

Every day, a lot of questions spring on my mind. Many whys and why nots play around.

"Why People get attracted to the bad"- is one of them. Or i can frame it like- why i am attracted to the bad (too). What is so called 'bad'? Who defines it? What does that mean? Is it justifiable to categorize something good or bad?

We live a normal life. We sleep, wake up, eat, work, communicate then sleep. Also do a lot of other things, what a normal person does. But things become different when we push our limits. If someone's act crosses the limit then he has done something bad. May be in a way that is true. But life is worth full when we play at our very limits. It is risky and fun.The boundaries are delicate and beautifully designed. you have to push the limits carefully not crossing the boundaries.

This is not easy to do. And hence those who manage to do it become bad and those who want to do it get attracted to them. It's a simple magnet that draws for the fun missed. 

Be HONEST, It’s Fun.

I was living a lie, afraid to show to the world the real me. I was afraid what if I would not be accepted as I am in this society. So I always carried pretense so that I can project a good person who would be loved by all. And it worked. But then I realized it is on false impression. I had no idea what I was doing. I had no idea what is good! Because for every person the definition of ‘good’ changes and henceforth I got to learn one cannot live a life impressing others. Even if you are flawless they would dig you and find a matter to scorn you or mock at you. They are always ready with an excuse to prove how much wrong you are.

I was tired of the society and its false impressions! I could not tell the exact incident or date when I slowly began to be honest to the harsh world. Though I was always honest to myself and my close ones which would include my good buddies and family. But then I began to be honest to whomsoever I talk to. The funny part is even if I am completely honest they find it hard to believe; not because they don’t trust the story but because they know no one can be so honest to brutally expose oneself.

I learned a lot. Being an open book I made people leave my side because they could not get their idle friend in me. Normally people do not accept the ‘wrong’ things one does, which I clearly did! But the one who understood were at my side forever. I got to know who my real friends are and how supportive one’s family can be. I wondered why I tried so hard to impress others when I was a kid. Then I realized I was a kid. Now I am not. I know how much to be frank with someone.

Nobody is honest anymore and people are afraid of it (like I was). Try to be honest and get the response of the world. It’s fun!

The Girl Next Door

People call her rough/ugly/tom boy! It’s not that she isn't comfortable in her skin, she wears shorts and minis but loose shirts/tees, folded sleeves, torn out jeans, and sport shoes would describe her better. She prefers back pack to ladies hand bag, leather band to bangles, watches to bracelets, pants to skirts, sneakers to high heels. She is not a show.

She talks more but unfolds less. She is enigmatic and charming. With no makeup on and her hair tied to a single knot she would go to places and explore world.

She has been hurt enough to be strong to withstand the storm of lies, mockery, betrayals and other evil emotions that exists in the world. She is a girl full of energy and life.

She is straight forward. She is shy but would crush you to pieces if you hurt her self esteem. She has cared enough for the world. Now

She cares for herself and the ones she adore.

She is none other than the girl next door.

Be Smart and SEXY

I find it funny when people find girls showing more skin, sexy. Sexuality does not lie in the clothes one wears rather it is in the attitude. Of course short clothes act as catalyst. You don’t have to wear minimum clothes. You can be sexy even if you are not skinny. A real man does not go for the curve and cleavage. These are mere attraction. Nobody wants a temporary love, love based on the show, because I would classify it as lust. If your man is in love with you because you look good then after a few years he might love someone else.

This is for the girls who torture themselves to become someone their man wants. They work hard not to eat so that they can be skinny. I don't encourage eating anything anytime one wants (Though I do that sometimes) I am foody and I would suggest eating healthy and staying healthy. You can always excuse yourself for a bar of chocolate or a piece of brownie or your favorite ice cream. Don’t get sick. Don’t starve yourself to impress a man. They have no idea how much a girl has to deal in her life. They don’t have boobs or suffer from menstruation like us. I do not blame them. It is how the world is designed. 

Show your importance and worthiness through your demeanour and not clothes/body.

   

 Be smart and sexy in your attitude.

Just a thought- wanted to keep small and simple.

Happy on my OWN

I am here waiting for you

Because that’s what you asked me to do

I know you broke my heart

I was never good enough

For you!

Still you put the blame on me

Where were gone those days 

when you say sorry

Even if the fault was mine!

The thing we had was divine.

Now you are back

You pleaded for a chance.

I missed you much,I wondered 

To give you one more try

It bleeds my heart, it makes me cry,

And if I do, I know for sure

You gonna crush my heart,

You gonna crush my soul.

So baby just leave me alone

Go your way

I am happy on my own.