Meeting is not the thing, Fitting in is!

We meet a lot of people in our lives. Some become friends some enemies and some frenemies (You know what I mean). You meet people through school, college, canteen, café, bar, office, public transport, neighbourhood, games, shows, and nowadays you can even find through social networking. You become close. Make friends, then friends of friend become friends and the list goes on.

You will find them love, hurt, help, support, irk, use, mentor, abuse, fight, scorn, compliment, hate, disgust and a lot more they do. We strive to meet new people in order to get the right person who would treat us right. Hence we meet many, become friends with few, again amongst the few many turn out to be different from our imagination and hence we are left with very few from many.

 Hence no matter how many you meet, it’s important that you find the right person. We click with some and cut out many. A friend of mine once said, “Meeting is not the thing, fitting in is!” Yes, he was right. Meeting and making friendship with many won’t help you. Find the one who would understand you and complete your voids and try to fit in.That is enough and better than making hundred friends who just know your skin.